May/June Heart of Glastonbury - Magazine - Page 35
RELATIONSHIPS CAN INSPIRE
OUR SPIRITUAL POTENTIAL
continued....
Testosterone relieves stress in
men
The
male
hormone
testosterone keeps them calm
—goes down during the day
because solving problems uses
Testosterone. Men need space
to re-build, he needs cave time
to re-build—he requires 30-50
times more cave time than
women.
Testosterone builds with
excitement but when it
gets
too
dangerous
adrenaline is produced -the
fight or flight hormone. So
in
severe
stress
in
relationships he may flee,
or ghost his partner. Plus if
he doesn’t work out or do
something
physical,
adrenaline accumulates in
the muscle and cortisol
goes up.
Cortisol goes up when men
are in prolonged stressed,
and they take more than
they give—want more and
don’t appreciate what’s
been given.
In
severe
danger,
testosterone
turns
to
oestrogen and he becomes
nervous. Plus unfortunately
oestrogen
is
in
the
environment, in our food
and water which causes
Testosterone
to
be
depressed...
Physical activity, cave time and
hormone-free food is important
for men to keep balance and
manage stress.
Men are biologically wired to
be alpha male to varying
degrees. When a man gives a
woman an orgasm he feels
like an alpha male and builds
testosterone. Men eyeing
women stems from their
alpha male desires—sex
with someone unknown is
fulfilling the greatest alpha
male animal dream and
through their imagination
creates a testosterone spike
—hence the use of porn by
men. In relationships this
primal roving eye still
happens but the evolved man
respects
his
love
relationship. He has re-wired
his brain to another level of
consciousness, over-ridden
those
primal
instincts
through love and respect of
his partner. If he looks at
other women it’s just a
biological wiring and is not
being disrespectful of his
love for his partner... It’s
worth noting that addiction
to porn is the absence of love
connection in sex.
Understanding these hormonal
differences helps to consider
how
our
partner
behaves
differently from us and opens
new possibilities to expand our
spiritual
potential
in
our
relationship.
However at core ‘Freedom to be
my Soul Self’-in a relationship
essentially means embracing
the understanding that it all
begins with me, ‘As within so
without.’ I have to permit myself
to be my Soul Self, I have to love
and trust myself.
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Sometimes we have a barrier to
our self love and trust because
we have not forgiven someone in
our past or ourselves. ‘Forgiving
of love and understanding’ can
dissolve
these
barriers.
Forgiveness is a powerful way to
inner peace and the gateway to
relationship resonance.
Please try this heart centred
meditation on Forgiveness on my
YouTube channel.
https://youtu.be/evBrelap-FA?
si=2FAXyqmmJ5SF6594
Hilary Bowring
Energy/Sound Healer; Meditation
Teacher.
Born in England, lives in Canada.
Available everywhere virtually!
www.divinealign.com
Visit her YouTube channel for many
Meditations,
Her book “Find Your Soul in your
heart” is available on Amazon
worldwide.