heart of glastonbury JuneJuly 24 - Flipbook - Page 61
DO WE NEED ROMANCE
TO BE FULFILLED?
continued....
irritations on our journey together.
Avoiding the damaging weapons of
fear and threats that are
devastating and destructive.
Sex is important as a
transformational
energy,
especially when combined with
emotional connection. Showing
our softer feelings creates a
safe bond in sex as well. Makeup sex is a wonderful healing
beyond words.
Loving thoughts are very
positive. Our thoughts change
our chemistry. Transmitting
love releases the feel good
hormones,
dopamine
and
oxytocin! The power of Love is
little discussed today with the
constant focus on stress
hormones—Yet Love is the
antidote!
Love
builds
Secure
Attachment- Many people
don’t voice their needs for fear
of rejection—can’t say ‘please
hug me’ or ‘please forgive me’.
When language isn’t possible.
Focus on your heart and send
love into the space between
you and your partner. Even in
an
argument
this
helps
everyone calm down.
We need to learn to go
underneath
the
words.
Sometimes words keep us
apart and in our heads. Even if
one person can speak words of
vulnerability, the other might
not be able to receive words.
Fill the space between with
love, it starts to build trust.
Bonding can be diminished and
distorted if there has been
abuse and parental rejection in
childhood. People turn to
attachment substitutes like
drugs and alcohol, sexual
addiction etc. which creates
major problems in relationships.
Unexpectedly these challenges
have an upside to rapid
transformation and can become
soul journeys with potential to
return to trust and love in
ourselves. Through the process
of
acceptance,
scrupulous
honesty and creation of healthy
boundaries. Addiction is a
perilous journey of potential
spiritual acceleration with death
in the shadows.
into each other’s eyes and being o
pen to admit fault sometimes..
Developing a Soul bond means
to focus on our hearts. The Seat
of the Soul is in our hearts, and
in situations ask “What would
Love do here?” and wait for
guidance. Our culture is very
much about the power of the
mind and can lead to being over
analytical.
Here’s a meditation to bring our
Mind into our Heart.
Mind into Heart meditation
https://youtu.be/r3kZuVZUVO
M?si=6vxgSISiD223qJt6
Higher Love is creating a bond
at a Soul level.
Higher love is more soul
connected.
A
relationship
allowing each to be their Soul
Self. This includes an orientation
of service, each helping the
other to be the best they can be
in this human expression.
Comes from taking the highest
level of our perception, seeing
the divine essence in each otherAssume high motives are behind
each other’s behaviour. Soul
generated motives are to help us
move through patterns; strife
and challenging times usually
present
transformational
possibilities. No blame, no
resentment
from
this
perspective.
Accentuating
the
positiveCasting a blind eye to the things
we don’t like or agree on.
Focussing on the negative leads
to bodily malfunction.
Allow emotional expression to
run as part of being human. We
sometimes need to vent in a safe
place as trapped emotions
foster resentments and illness.
A safe place for release is a gift
to give each other.
Commitment: There needs to be
sustained
commitment
to
relationships, we need to be
devoted to staying the course
whenever possible and engage
in difficult conversation. Staring
Designed by “Heart of Glastonbury” copyright
Hilary Bowring
Energy/Sound Healer; Meditation
Teacher.
Born in England, lives in Canada.
Available everywhere virtually!
www.divinealign.com
Visit her YouTube channel for many
Meditations,
Her book “Find Your Soul in your
heart” is available on Amazon
worldwide.