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“BRING ME A HIGHER OVE.”
PART 1. GROWING A CONSCIOUS
By Hilary Bowring
KIND OF LOVE...
Spring is in the air, the
birdies are starting to
build their nests and our
hearts feel the energy of
romance as new life
energy abounds. A time
for fresh growth.
We have evolved in many
areas of our lives and maybe
it’s time for romance to be
infused with that same
awareness! Let’s invite a more
conscious
approach
to
romance.
We were never taught about
this at school or by our
parents, we fell in love and
often times we fell out of love
and into divorce or stayed in a
marriage that was governed
by practical’s rather than
romance.
Well there’s a chance for all
that
to
change...the
evolutionary shift is strongly
about enjoying soul partners
who actively bring pleasure
and
freedom
to
each
other...an
experience
of
higher Love! Whether in an
existing
relationship
or
attracting in a new soul mate
as we raise our vibes!
Yeh!
by past life karma and dharma
expressed
in
our
soul
contracts. This lifetime we may
have the chance to complete
several contracts and the
ability to evolve faster in our
relationships...
“A soul mate isn’t someone who
completes you. No, a soul mate is
someone who inspires you to
complete
yourself.”
Bianca
Spiracino. Author and Poet
Check different Relationship
conditions, decide what
applies to you:
Lifetime: No matter what,
you'll be together forever.
Through thick and thin love
Life Supportive: Designed to
positively support your life
purpose
throughout
your
relationship, allowing gentle,
slow progress
Evolutionary purpose: Has a
defined
goal,
and
when
complete,
so
is
the
relationship. There’s a new
term ‘Conscious uncoupling’
coined by Gwenyth Paltrow.
Where a couple separate with
love and thanks. In marriages
sometimes divorce is the best
solution especially if one
partner
resists
growth.
Unfortunately if the underlying
problem pattern hasn’t been
addressed the next marriage is
full of the same issues...
Where to Begin? What’s in
our Soil?
Before we are conscious our
relationships are drawn to us
Designed by “Heart of Glastonbury” copyright
Evolutionary driver-This
relationship can accelerate
the evolution from a habitual
pattern, and can be very
intense. Some are combined
with high risk—like Addiction,
Mental health issues, Abuse.
We can potentially work
through them with new depth
of understanding so our next
relationship is not full of more
of the same.
Things go better when we
know our roots--Consider the
prevailing patterns governing
relationships
·Family of origin factor. Be
aware of the sub-conscious
influence
your
family
conditioning and home life has
on the kind of love you attract,
maybe counter to your dreams
and expectations. Could be
dysfunctional
models
of
behaviour we find comfortable
because they are familiar:
Male dominant/authoritarian,
Female dominant,
authoritarian,
Mother son, Father daughter
roles. Caretaker
For example my Mum was widowed
very young so her model to me was
female dominant with emotional
dysfunction. I perpetuated that same
model with my late husband and his
mother was the same so that model
was OK with him! However in the end
I understood it was HE who was
teaching me! After his death I
explored
someone
who
was
masculine dominant helping me shift
from my family conditioning.