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non-consensual kink and lovelessness.
Here’s a thing, what I call conscious sex and
awareness based self pleasure, are about as
exciting to watch as someone meditating, so
it’s not a spectators sport, but it is 100%
fulfilling to those practising it and also to our
mental, emotional and physical needs and
wellbeing.
For sexual intimacy to become truly fulfilling, I
believe, it has to be seen as more than a quick
sweaty exercise chasing an orgasm, to release
sexual tension. Instead it can be seen as a
sacred union, meaning the expression of love,
a melting into the unified field of Chi, of the life
force together. And the problem is that most
sexual education, and even many westernised
models of Tantric arts, don’t focus on these
type of relationship based lifelong practices.
Many men work with me because they sense
that they have lost their libido, however after a
short period of time, they learn that they had
never been taught about their own sexual
energy system and how to manage it.
I’m not saying that men aren’t experiencing
low libido, but I believe that what wrong is not
them but the way we’ve been taught to
experience sexual energy and union. For many
relationships, sex is only truly exciting during
the honeymoon period, but with the right
practices we can experience that sex can get
better overtime, once we understand its
potential.
As you master it, this unique form of love
making matures overtime, I see on a societal
level, that we have been encouraged to be
numbed out, and over stimulated. We have
forgot how to drop into Eros: the orgasmic
energy of ‘being’ each day, which is vibrating
subtly in our body. If sex is left on the material
level, it will remain about chasing, getting
somewhere and wanting things to be always
new and exciting.
All of which ends up with us getting burn out
and often leads to feelings of emptiness. Soul
sex for us is the future, it's the art of being
present, the art of falling deeper into love, and
feeling more energised, connected and alive,
instead of drained and depleted. The potential
for better union brings more love and
connection into relationships, and therefore
has the potential to make the world a more
peaceful and loving place for us all.
INTIMACY
16 Week Online Group Programme For
Couples
With Graeme Waterfield & Sarah Rose
Bright
In a long term committed partnership, if clear
communication is learnt, and if you’re making
time for each other and for intimacy, there can
become a safe container for 2 people not only
to fall deeper into love, but deeper into trust
and openness with each other. This lifelong
process of learning how to be more open and
vulnerable with someone allows us to travel
deeper into layer after layer of sexual union
and pleasure.
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